He had a relationship at the end of December 1896 (aged just 17) with a girl called Cathleen Clancy. She became pregnant and gave birth to Mary.
He served in the Royal marines light infantry, and was killed in the Boxer rebellion in defense of Lecations, Taku Forts at Tientsin near Peking. There is a memorial to those who died from his ship, the H.M.S. Orlando in Victoria Park,Park Road
Portsea, Portsmouth.
According to the military record, on 4 Feb 97 he tried to join the Royal Marines Light Infantry (RMLI). He was too young, and on his 18th birthday 15 April 1897 he joined up.
The pictures attached were taken at Deal, Kent.
He was then transferred to Portsmouth and on the 25th August 1898 (just 2 days before his daughter was born), departed for China on HMS Barfleur.
According to the casualty list, Henry was killed on 17th June1900 at Langfang from a bullet to the head, being the first Marine through the front gates of the college which they had broken down. This is at odds with the memorial at Portsmouth and the following telegraph that claim he was killed at Tientsin rather than in Seymour’s column.
See attached images of accounts in newspapers of the time detailing the assault on teh collage and detailing his name.
Towards the Admiralty arch end of the Mall in London is a statue dedicated to Royal Marines Light Infantry casualties in South Africa and China. On the sides are bas-reliefs of fighting during the siege of Tianjin. Source: http://www.findarticles.com/cf_0/m1373/8_50/63986758/print.jhtml
There was a film made about this rebellion called 55 days to Peking starring Charlton Heston.
Quote from letter from May to Mary Ely:
"Grandfather always used to have a saying, as a little boy, he would say to him: "Henry, that head of yours would stop a bullet"
Henry's military records are held in the public records office, Kew, archive ADM159/15. The ships log, detailing all happenings are in archive ADM53.
HMS Orlando:
Was sold to Ward's of Morecombe in 1905.
Heavy Armoured Cruiser
56,000 tonnes
2 x 9" guns
10x6" guns
10x3lb guns
From his military record: 5' 6 3/4" tall.